Isn’t it interesting that
the loveliest women in the world and
the
finest men in the world
dress in modesty and refinement.
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Editor’s Note: It is that
time of year when the air temperature begins to warm, and almost
instinctively it seems that people start shedding their clothes to
appear immodest. This worldly mentality affects many in the church. When
our young girls and their mothers wear clothing (or we might say, the
lack of clothing) unworthy of a Christian, we know the world has
captivated them. When our young men and their fathers wear clothing (and
again, the lack of clothing), we know the world has overcome them too!
Please consider the following articles.
The Long and Short of It
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There were fig leaves, mini-skirts, short-shorts and now long shorts.
The aforementioned refers to a variety of styles and fads that have been
worn by women from mother Eve to the modern day women. This article is
not intended to be a fashion critique, but it is to underscore the
problem of immodesty. Someone has accurately stated, "our apparel
broadcasts a message telling people something of where we have been in
life and where we plan to go." This penman wholeheartedly concurs
with that statement.
Several weeks ago, a friend called to inform me of a serious immodest
problem plaguing the church where he labored. Apparently many of the
ladies began wearing "long shorts," the newest craze designed
to get females to wear the garment. It’s unfortunate the current style
of clothing is captivating and alluring to even Christian women. When
are we going to learn that what’s in vogue may not conform to God’s
definition of modesty. This penman vehemently opposed the ungodly
mini-skirt in the late 60's and early 70's as scores of our
"sisters" could not wait to try what was the "hot"
fashion. Now another fad as descended upon us. Why dear reader should
popularity and what’s new be such a temptation? The Bible plainly
says, "...be not conformed to this world..."
(Rom.
12:2).
When will we learn?
Let us notice some basic principles of
apparel for Christians.
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1) Our apparel should conform to God’s requirement of modesty.
Paul with great clarity emphasizes that "women adorn themselves
in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety..." (I Tim.
2:9,10). Certainly, God is no respecter of persons and what He
expects of the woman He also expects of the man. God never dealt with a
particular style of clothing or that our apparel be so many inches above
or below the knee. He is simply laying down a principle that can be
applied to all situations for all generations.
Notice the word modest
– it suggests discreet clothes , avoiding extremes either way.
Modest apparel places emphasis on Christian graces not on sexual
attraction.
Shamefacedness – being prudent which shrinks from
overpassing the limits of womanly reserve and modesty.
Sobriety
– simply means sober-mindedness. Long shorts, short shorts and etc.
cannot meet God’s standard, therefore it is wrong.
2) Our apparel must not be provoctive of lust. Jesus said,
"...whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed
adultery..." (Matt.
5:27,28). According to this passage a
woman’s dress can provoke lust in men. Christian mothers need to
understand this and teach their daughters that certain apparel is
provocative and seductive to the opposite sex and should not be worn. It
is not enough to say the man should control his thoughts...the female
may be equally responsible by wearing such seductive clothing that would
cause him to lust.
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3) Our apparel should pass the influence test. Paul said we
should "Give none offence (occasion of stumbling,
ASV),
neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles, nor to the
church of God" (I Cor.
10:32). How many Christians by their
apparel or lack of it cause vulnerable souls to stumble? Christian
friend, our influence is at stake when we wear short shorts, long shorts
and the like. The very name we wear, Christian, infers that we be
Christ-like.
Henceforth, our apparel is to a great degree a barometer of
our spirituality. Jesus said, "...let your light so shine before
men..." (Matt.
5:16). The Savior did not say, "let your
leg so shine" or "let your thigh so shine" and etc. Too
many children of God feel that it is stylish to see just how much flesh
can be exposed. One of the quickest ways to lose our influence and cause
others to stumble is by conforming to the modern fashion trends.
4) Our apparel should respect the distinction God has made in
males and females. God has established this principle in both the
Old and New Testaments (Deut. 22 and
I Cor.
11). A clear distinction in
our apparel must be seen. The feminist movement has been devastating in
this regard by seeking to destroy all distinctions of males and females.
Unisex clothes and other apparel is only a sample of their intentions.
God made us males and females, therefore, let us respect His defined
guidelines with respect to hair length, apparel and etc.
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Warm weather and summer time offers many problems to the Christian,
not the least of which is the selection of our apparel. Men as well as
women should be conscious of this and select clothing that communicates
a clear message that we are Christians.
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– Bob Spurlin, April 2000 –
GNFY is published under the oversight of the
Alkire Rd Church of Christ elders, 2779 Alkire Road, Grove City, Ohio, 43123.
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Editor:
Mark Bass, Minister, mebass1957@aol.com,
(614) 875-1028
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Youth
Leader: John Justus, (614) 274-9563
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