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Loving The Brethren - II PETER 1:5-11

 

INTRODUCTION:

1.

Growing in the knowledge of Jesus Christ has an inward focus as evidenced by.

a.

Building upon one's personal faith

b.

Striving for excellence as an individual goal

c.

Increasing one's own knowledge

d.

Controlling the passions and desires of the self

e.

Bearing up under trials with a positive attitude

2.

It also has an upward focus with the addition of godliness.  God

3.

Then there is the outward focus with the addition of brotherly kindness followed by the addition of love.

  

BODY:

 

I. THE DEFINITION OF BROTHERLY KINDNESS

A. THE GREEK WORD IS PHILADELPHIA.

  1. A compound involving two words:

    1. "phileo" (love)

    2. "adelphos" (brother)

  2. It literally means "the love of brothers"

B. AS USED IN THE NEW TESTAMENT.

  1. It describes the love which Christians cherish for each other as brethren (Thayer)

  2. Christians were charged to display this virtue - Heb 13:1

  3. They were to increase in it more and more - I Thess 4:9-10

  4. They had been purified for this very purpose - I Pet 1:22

  5. Rom 12:10 reveals that it is through brotherly kindness we can have "kind affection" toward one another

C. 

It is brotherly kindness, therefore, that provides a true sense of family in our association as members of the Lord's body.

 

II. THE DEMAND OF BROTHERLY KINDNESS

 

A. NECESSARY TO KNOW GOD.

  1. Without sincere love for brethren, any claim to know God or love Him is impossible - I John 4:7-8,20-21

  2. If we truly desire to know God (and grow in the knowledge of Jesus), then it is essential to develop brotherly kindness!

B.   NECESSARY TO BE JESUS' DISCIPLES.

  1. Jesus made love for brethren an identifying mark by which the world can know we are His disciples - John 13:34-35
  1. Right doctrine is certainly important - II John 9
  2. But the world pays little attention to what is perceived as minor doctrinal differences
  3. What people do notice is love in a world filled with hate, especially when such love is observed among individuals who come from various social, economic, and racial backgrounds
  1. Any attempt to proclaim New Testament Christianity.
  1. Will fail to appeal to those in the world
  2. Unless it is accompanied by a visible demonstration of true brotherly kindness among Christians!

C.   NECESSARY TO ANSWER JESUS' PRAYER FOR UNITY.

  1. Unity among brethren is also very important, as indicated in the prayer of Jesus - John 17:20-23
  2. The unity is only possible as we endeavor to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace - Eph 4:3
  3. Crucial to that endeavor is bearing with one another in love - Eph 4:2
  1. There will be times when brethren sin against one another
  2. Where brotherly kindness prevails there will also be forbearance and forgiveness
  3. This provides time for repentance and reconciliation necessary to remain united
  1. Unless we develop brotherly kindness, churches will be prone to split at the earliest indication of conflict!

III. THE DEVELOPMENT OF BROTHERLY KINDNESS

A.   REQUIRES PURITY OF SOUL.

  1. Brotherly kindness can easily be misdirected, especially in a sex-crazed society
  2. Obedience purifies our soul - I Pet 1:22-23
  1. We have been born again by incorruptible seed
  2. Sincere and fervent love of the brethren is now possible

B.   REQUIRES BEING TAUGHT BY GOD.

  1. Those taught by God need little to be said - I Thes 4:9-10
  2. The Father teaches the meaning of love by the giving of His Son - I John 4:9-10
  3. The Son demonstrates true love by the example of His sacrifice - I John 3:16
  4. The more we reflect upon the love and sacrifice of Jesus, the sooner we understand the true meaning of brotherly kindness - John 13:34

C. REQUIRES SPENDING TIME WITH BRETHREN.

  1. This I have gleaned from personal experience
    1. The more I am around people.
    2. The more I come to know them personally.
    3. The more I share experiences with them
    4. The easier I find it to "fall in love" with them!
  1. It is not much different than with one's own physical family
  1. I had no choice who my physical sister would be
  2. But as we experience life together our love and appreciation for one another deepens
  3. I find it to be the same with my brethren in Christ; spend time together!

D. REQUIRES PRAYING FOR BRETHREN.

  1. This also is gleaned from personal experience
  2. Pray fervently for your brethren, especially those with whom you may have a personality clash - James 5:16
  3. It is hard to remain angry or maintain a strong dislike for someone when you spend time praying for them, and there will be brotherly kindness!

IV. THE DISPLAY OF BROTHERLY KINDNESS

A. AS IT AFFECTS OUR ATTITUDE TOWARD BRETHREN.

  1. Brotherly kindness will lead one to be considerate
  1. A brother who is strong will be considerate of his weak brother - Rom 15:1
  2. Where a brother may have liberty in Christ, he is willing to limit that freedom if it is beneficial to the spiritual well-being of his brother - 
    I Cor 8:13; Gal 5:13
  1. Brotherly kindness that will lead one to be cautious 
  1. About what they say about them - James 4:11
  2. About judging a brother - James 4:11-12

B. AS IT AFFECTS OUR SERVICE TOWARD BRETHREN.

  1. Brotherly kindness will lead us to care for one another - I Thes 5:14
  1. To warn the unruly, to comfort the faint-hearted
  2. To uphold the weak, to be patient with all 
  1. Brotherly kindness will prompt us to pursue the right things - Rom 14:19
  1. Things that make for peace
  2. Things by which we may edify one another

CONCLUSION:

1. 

We may think that we have a strong love for the brethren but we need to always increase more and more! - I Thes 4:9-10

2. 

And so may Paul's prayer in I Thes 3:12-13 be fulfilled in us.
 

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